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If you have just been shown the door by someone who was once your spouse or significant other, you know how difficult that can be. Still, when you've just gone through a breakup, it can be a mistake to immediately try to reconcile with the person you love. You can state your case, true, but it's not likely that your lover is going to immediately say yes and see your point of view. If you approach this the wrong way, though, it's only going to make you more disappointed and will only bring you more hardship. You can, however, win back your ex in 25 days, without looking as though you're desperate. Here are three ways you can win back the person you love, within 25 days.

The first thing you absolutely must do is take a look at yourself and acknowledge the areas that need work. Be completely honest with yourself! This is very, very difficult because it takes a lot of courage to admit that we might have some bad traits or have made some mistakes in our lives. We tend to push these attributes to the side and choose not to deal with our issues. However, in many cases, these issues that we have buried tend to contribute to our problems in our relationships. Did you lie quite a bit to your ex while the two of you were together? Did your ex feel unappreciated? Do you have difficulty in showing your appreciation? Asking yourself these questions will really help you during the restoration process.

So as your first assignment, take out a notepad or piece of paper and write down some areas that you need to change within yourself in order to repair the relationship. Do this over the course of two or three days and brainstorm so that you can improve yourself and therefore have a chance to make a relationship work once you reconcile.

After you have written these issues down, begin to think of what you can do to change them. And do not attempt a reconciliation until you've taken this assessment and worked on those issues. This is your first assignment, as well as the second step, and it is the key to winning back your ex. After you have made the changes you feel are most important to your ex, you can then go on to the next step.

Your third assignment is that after you've worked on making improvements in yourself you want to see, begin to show up around your ex just so that he or she can see the changes you've made. Don't try to get him or her back just yet. Instead, just let her see the positive changes you've made even as you show him or her those positive qualities he or she always liked. When the time is right, you can also apologize for the things you did wrong in the relationship. Be kind and confident when you speak to your ex. If you follow the steps above and show your ex the positive changes you've made with the final step, he or she will begin to realize that breaking up was a mistake and will want to be with you once again.
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