Dating Tips - If You Want to Catch Him - Don't Let Him Catch You!

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Dating Tips - If You Want to Catch Him - Don't Let Him Catch You!

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WANTING is a funny thing, if you think about it. How exactly do you get someone to want something? If you are in the dating market, this is a question you have to be ABLE to answer - because in order to get a partner, boyfriend or husband, you have to know what to do to make the man want you.

Most of us are not born salespeople. If we want someone to want something, we don't sit there and tell someone how awesome it is, convincing them that they need it. You don't offer it to them for free, certainly, because you know how much you could "get out of it".

Scarcity is what actually makes people value something highly. Diamonds, for instance, are highly valued because they are scarce. They are priced high, sought after, treasured and cherished. Wouldn't it be nice to be a diamond?

What you need to understand is that you ARE the precious gem. If you want to remain appealing and exciting to a guy, you need to imagine yourself as priceless, extraordinary and WANTED. Remember the last thing you just HAD to have? Maybe it was some new gadget like an iPod or a new Juke phone. You thought about it all the time, you were totally psyched to get it and thought the price was certainly worth it. Then after you had it for a while, it was still great, but you thought about it less and less until you finally either forgot about it or use it without even realizing it.

Once the anticipation is gone, unless there is true substance to a relationship, the attraction fades as well. If you think about this in terms of a relationship with a man, if you let him catch you before the relationship has really begun, then the attraction will soon perish as well.

So what you need to do to create attraction for your date is to think of yourself as a wild animal, unable to be captured. Most women, though, WANT to be captured! As funny as that sounds, to many women, the idea of being caught and "tamed" is sexy and alluring - they like the idea of the strength that represents for a man. However - if you want to keep HIM attracted, you need to lead him on a merry chase.

All well and good - but how do you DO that? Try taking a look at the things that tell a man you are HIS. First of all - sex. There are few things that say to a woman "I am in a relationship" more than sex. To a man, however, this is not the case. To him, sex is sex. So - don't give to him for free what has HUGE VALUE to you. Don't have sex with him until you are SURE you have a relationship!

Next, try to leave him wanting more with the little things. The next time you and he are really having a great conversation, end it a little early. Don't wait until it naturally tapers off, cut it off before that. This way, he will be left wanting more - thinking about you and your connection, and anticipating talking to you again.

Another thing that you can do is to not be available when calls. Wait a couple hours to call him back, or if you can stand it, until the next day. You can even carry that over to when he asks you for date. Don't settle for the first date he tells you. If he suggests you go out on Thursday, tell him y9ou are busy that night, but how about Saturday instead? Do you see what I mean here?

Scarcity adds value - and you are a valuable treasure. The great thing is, these tactics can be used to attract a man in the beginning, but they can also be used to keep the attraction in the relationship alive and blooming after the newness has worn off.
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