Does it Feel like WORK Meeting Women? - Part I
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Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?
And how does it feel that despite of all your hard work you're still not getting the success you're looking for?
If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.
In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating.
You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.
In your approach, you have to have the courage.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")
That can be debilitating, especially if you don't have an "extroverted" trait.
...I just had a client who often complained of "extroversion fatigue."
I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.
Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
What I do is to have a sit and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home and be absolutely DEAD
... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
That things makes any sense???
There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.
I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!
The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).
It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.
I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.
If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.
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Vin DiCarlo is a professional pick up artist trainer, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
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