Managing Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 2
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Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.
"Doofus dad" syndrome is another societal factor that I'm going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This brings to an opinion that women are "better," and that their time is more important than yours.
You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.
But here's the thing - you won't be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I'm only giving a smaller amounts of my time.
Not only did this make our time better, it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
Now my women can't get enough of me - in fact, I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
Women can't be pulled to what they already have. You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me.
The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don't recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.
No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don't spend more time that you want.
Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.
Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I'll have to cover in another newsletter.
It's not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" girls, and then they are left out ALONE.
Remember that women aren't property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
It doesn't mean that you can "keep" the women if you invest all your time with her.
I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It's either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.
That's why I set out on a journey to discover and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And no, we don't try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you'll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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