The Reasons Behind Break-Ups

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Has this query ever crossed your mind? Why is it that women dump men? Time and time again you'll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. It's puzzling, seeing as he treated her well and it seemed that he really worshipped her.

Most likely you've heard the phrase "Nice guys finish last", right? In fact, that saying is somewhat true. Many women aren't as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. She is going to be concerned if you act head over heals in love.

Are all women that way? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they'll expect to be treated well or they'll get out of the relationship. But many females think that things are always better elsewhere. They would be better off with the person coming in the near future.

How should you respond when a woman unexpectedly calls off the relationship? You will not immediately contact her. It's obvious she didn't appreciate what she had at the time, so give her the opportunity to realize what she has lost.

Don't behave like your world has ended, go out and have a real life. Get out of the house and even date a little. When you start dating, you may be lucky enough to find a woman who is confident enough in herself to appreciate all that you have to offer her.

The real question you need to ask yourself is if you really want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you absolutely think she's the one, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Fixing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there.

If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share much about your life. And don't ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.

In short, she needs to prove herself as an appropriate girlfriend or lover. Let HER be the one doing the chasing, not the opposite. If you finally catch her, be mysterious. Keep in mind, she may be uncertain how to respond to a decent guy, so don't overwhelm her.

Did you hear me tell you to mistreat her? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If salvaging your relationship is what you want, here are the steps that may help restore your happiness.
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